People you need to steer clear of during your divorce.

Divorcing? Watch out for these Drips, Drains and Downers

Divorcing? Watch out for these Drips, Drains and Downers. I hate to say this, but sometimes you have to protect yourself from the people around you. Even those you call friends. And the way to do that is to limit the time you spend with them. Mean? Maybe. Self preservation? Most definitely. Do these people seem familiar? The Drains: These […]

Women and body image. Why do we hate ourselves so much?

Women and body image. Why do we hate ourselves so much?

  Women and body image. Why do we have to hate our bodies so much? I started on my first diet in high school, but the obsessing and hate for myself and my body started much earlier. I remember when I started my period at 13. I went from boyish to curvy with softened thighs, a waist and a butt. […]

Why school bakes sales are so scary for divorced moms

Divorce, Costco pizzas and bakes sales are scary.

Why school bakes sales are so scary for divorced moms. Divorced Moms Know Divorce, Costco Pizza and Bake Sales Are Scary. School fundraisers scare me. Actually, moms at school fundraisers scare me. Now that I’m in a divorce, it’s like I’m wearing see thru panties when I volunteer at school bake sales. They see everything you’ve got going on and […]

Divorce 101: Why Fridays Suck When You’re Separated

Divorce 101: Why Friday's Suck When You Divorced

Divorce 101: Why Fridays Suck When You’re Separated. Here’s a little Separation and Divorce 101 info you might want to know. When you are divorced, Fridays are the suckiest day of the week by far. I know, everyone loves to hate Mondays. Back to work, back to school, and all that stuff. But since I’m separated, I’ve come to truly […]

How I Finally Kicked My Diet Coke Addiction.

How I Finally Kicked My Diet Coke Addiction

Follow my blog with Bloglovin How I Finally Kicked my Diet Coke Addiction. I love me some Diet Coke. Ok, I mean, I have a Diet Coke addiction. Downing an iced cold can glistening with moisture takes me to my happy place. It makes a bad day bearable and a good day better. I’ve been in love with Diet Coke […]

The 100 calorie low Cal margarita recipe

Low Cal cocktail recipe: 100 Calorie Margarita

Love Margaritas but hate the huge calories? Here’s a fresh, delicious and low cal margarita recipe that replaces fresh lime juice to lower the calories to a scant 100. Did you know that most margaritas have over 600 calories? Yikes!! That’s enough to ruin a good night of Mexican food before you even get to the tacos. Here’s a low-calorie margarita […]

Communicating with your Ex: Relationship Tips from A Six Pound Chihuahua

custard small but mighty

  Communicating with your ex: relationship tips I’ve learned from a six pound chihuahua. Inspiration comes in funny places sometimes. One of my best relationship coaches is my chihuahua. Pound for pound, she’s got some great nonverbal communications we can all learn from.    She’s six pounds at most, but Custard my Chihuahua could teach us all a few things […]

Divorce Is Like A Bikini Wax. Let it Rip.

how divorce is like a bikini wax

I had an important realization about my divorce recently. I was naked from the waist down and waiting for a woman with a hot stick to singe my nether regions with melted wax when it hit me, divorce and a bikini wax are way too much alike. Both experiences are a) embarrassing, b) expensive and c) very painful. In both processes […]